Questions for those who have not yet read
"Talking with the Enemy"
1. Now that is clear who will be president for the next four years,
what do you most want people who voted for another candidate to
understand about what the outcome of this election means to you
personally? What do you most want to understand about people who voted
differently than you?
2. Are there ways that your values and perspectives have been painfully
stereotyped by the "other side," particularly during this most recent
campaign? If so, what is it about who you are and what you care
about that makes those stereotypes especially painful or enraging?
3. Did you avoid discussing the 2004 election with a family member or
friend? Why? What were you afraid would happen? What may have been lost
as a result? What was gained? What steps would you need to take in
order to enter another political conversation with this person more
hopefully than fearfully?
4. Can you think of a time when you had a constructive conversation
about a political or social issue with someone who thinks very
differently than you? What made it possible for the conversation to be
a positive one?
5. If you could have a conversation with anyone who has a different
political viewpoint from yours, whom would you choose? What would
you like to learn about that person? What would you want that person to
understand about you? What would it take - from you, from the other
person, from the setting of conversation - for the conversation to be
constructive?
6. What questions are likely to stimulate constructive "red/blue"
conversations that would be of interest to you?
7. In what ways, if any, do you think polarizing conduct in the
political arena hurts or helps the democratic process in the US?
8. In what ways do (or don't) your habits of talking to or about those
who have radically different views from yours match your wishes about
how they would engage you and your views?
9. Have you ever been in a situation where a shared understanding of
necessity allowed you to work with people with whom you strongly
disagreed on other important matters? What did your shared sense of
necessity allow you to do?
10. What are your major fears about what lies ahead? What gives you
most hope?
11. If you were to overhear political opponents talking animatedly
about the "common ground" for America, what do you hope they would be
discussing? What "common ground" do you think representatives of the
political parties could "occupy together" to our collective benefit?
12. If a "Let's Heal America" movement were to gather momentum, what
ingredients might make it effective? Under what circumstances might you
want to include yourself in such a movement? Where might you start?
What life experiences would you draw on? What support would you want
from those who share your views? From those who voted for a different
candidate for president?
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Do you have a story to tell about a breakthrough you've had in a
politically polarized situation? The Christian Science Monitor is
interested in your ideas, as an opinion essay or as simple feedback,
which can be sent to its "Talking With the Enemy" series at talking@csps.com.
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