The Six
C's of Convening Constructive Conversations
Think stars. Like the Big Dipper. This cluster of C's gives you an
easily recognizable constellation of qualities to help you navigate
your way into and through a constructive conversation with people who
may have radically different views from one another and from you.
CLARITY
Be clear about your reasons for reaching out, what kind of conversation
you have in mind, and where you hope those involved will have
experienced by the time it ends.
COLLABORATION
Invite your potential partner(s) to join you in making key decisions
about the conversation, including the timing, location, and topics you
will (and won't) discuss.
CAREFUL COMMUNICATION Decide together what
agreements to make about how you will and will not talk to one another.
CURIOUSITY
Decide together what questions are likely to surface new information
that will be of genuine mutual interest. Ask questions to learn.
COMMITMENT
Discuss what commitments will strengthen mutual trust. For example, to
stay until the end, to honor requests to keep what is said to yourself
or "off the record," to "hang in" to the best of your ability,
listening even to what is hard to hear.
CREDIBILITY
Say what is true for you, your views, beliefs, feelings and
experiences. Avoid claims of speaking for people who are not present.
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