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Everybody’s Doing It

July 14, 2010 — I was awaiting minor surgery when I noticed the sign on the wall of the operating room: “Time-Out Protocol.” It was a checklist of what nurses, doctors and technicians are supposed to do before starting the operation. My favorite item was PAUSE, written in capital letters, just like that.

Talking About Talking to Kids About Israel

When Marjorie Ingalls described her internal conflict about having conversations with her kids about Israel on the Web site for Tablet Magazine, she received some strong responses from readers. That’s no surprise, since there is a wide range of deeply held viewpoints and emotions about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict within the Jewish community.

Civil Discourse, Meet the Internet; Internet, meet Civil Discourse

Civil Discourse

In this guest post, Deborah Elizabeth Finn, an online engagement expert and long time technology consultant to the Public Conversations Project ponders a future in which the internet and Public Conversations exert a positive influence on each other.

Israel Need Not Be Third Rail

Yesterday, the New York Times printed an article entitled "On Israel, Jews and Leaders Often Disagree," which began with the following characterization: "Criticizing Israel has long been the equivalent of touching the third rail in many Jewish families and friendships, relegating disagreements to a conversational demilitarized zone where only the innocent and foolhardy go." This hit home with me for a number of personal and professional reasons.

Needed: A Healthier Process

A recent New York Times analysis about the passage of health care reform describes an issue greater than any single concrete problem: Our ability to problem-solve, together. Be it abortion, a crippled economy, or health care—the last year saw a disturbing amount of name-calling, polarization, and gridlock.

Learning Opportunities

Would you like to learn how to facilitate constructive dialogue between individuals or groups at work or at home? Participate in one of our upcoming workshops!

So what?: Reflections on Purpose

Today is my birthday and I'm reflecting. I've been thinking about why I do the work that I do. I find that all of my answers relate to a question we hear frequently at the Public Conversations Project: "So what?"

"They are just words….so what? So you help people play nice: What difference does it really make?"

I often find myself scratching my head when this question comes up because—to me—the connection between words and other kinds of action seems so self-evident.

Do You Have Your Dialogue License?—Feb. 11, 2010

This morning I was driving to work behind a “student driver” car going exactly the speed limit (which is to say, at least 15 mph slower than traffic usually moves on that particular road).  I started to get impatient, but then I thought I’d try to use the time to notice things around me, breathe, be mindful, and all of that.

A Prepositional Proposition—Dec. 10, 2009

I hate it when people talk at me. Since childhood, when a parent or other authority figure assaults me with words, sentences, paragraphs… they fail to communicate and I shut down.

When my children were young, I tried to remember that sensation and to avoid doing the same thing to them.  Sometimes I fell short. Lectures, tirades…whatever you call them… if I couldn’t resist the temptation, words were said and meaning was lost.

The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy—Dec. 2, 2009

The Public Conversations Project's work with the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy looks different than the more typical training workshops and dialogue facilitation that we do.  Our expertise in dialogue has been relevant in perhaps surprising ways.

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